Why father figure matter in Christian family?

Published on Oct. 5, 2025 written By Xikombiso Mawela

Many families in South Africa have absent fathers. Growing up as a child without a father in a home can impact a child in a negative way.

The absence of the father in a home can leave a gap in mentorship, guidance, love and identity. This blog article will explore the significance of the presence of the father in a Christian home.

Fatherhood biblical foundation

“As the father pities his children, so the Lord pities those who fear Him "Psalm 103:13. Fathers in the family should reflect the love, guidance, and protection of God in the family.

A role of the father figure in a Christian home

The role of the father in a family is to provide. Fathers must ensure that the needs of the children are met, it could be financial, physical, emotional and spiritual needs. Fathers are called to spiritual leadership. Children must be lead in faith, righteousness and fathers should set an example for their children to follow. Fathers' role is to encourage and comfort.

How the absence of the impact the children

According to the State of South African Fathers reports states that 64% of SA children grow without fathers. Growing without a father, children can struggle with belonging, identity and stability. Boy children should be taught at the early age to become a man

that God has created them to be.

Restoring fatherhood.

Fathers should embrace and take seriously the role that God had gave them. Men should support and encourage each other in fatherhood. By God’s grace, broken family can be restored, God is able.

In conclusion, father figure is important in a Christian family, is not only about being present but reflecting the character of God. As the fathers lead with faith, grace and love, they set a foundation for generation rooted in Christ.